How do I get my ex girlfriend back…(long story, have a cup of coffee ready for this one)…please help!!!?
How do I get my ex girlfriend back…(long story, have a cup of coffee ready for this one)…please help!!!?
Ok people here’s the deal..please be easy on me..I made a HUGE mistake and i know it. I just want my ex back cause I think she’s “the one”, seriously. I think she the girl that god gave me as a life mate. She would have brought so much joy to my life and im having a really hard time dealing with the thought of her not being there anymore. Like i said i made a “HUGE MISTAKE”. Probably wont happen but i gotta try to her her back anyway. Someone please help me. Im not a bad guy, i just screwed up. (please read the whole thing before responding)
I was in a relationship with someone before her for 3 years, we broke up then i met the girl who im now trying to get back with. Unfortunately i met her 2 months after my break up. i was still not entirely over my last relationship at the time. However my ex was really cool and a lot of fun and helped me to forget about my other relationship, so it was nice having her there. I guess u can call her my rebound even though i hate to call her that cause now she means so much more to me. But honestly i didn’t really notice how great she was in the beginning cause my heart was still pre-consumed with my ex. i am the type of guy who can only love one person at a time and i don’t think that’s a bad thing.
The beginning of our relationship was rocky cause i still had feelings for my last girlfriend. Once i was finally got over her, my new relationship with my ex took off. we went to Hawaii for 2 weeks and had a blast. sex 3 times a day, goin out having fun together, doin all the things that i never did before with a girlfriend that i always wanted to. that even continued on after we got back from the trip. it was perfect. She gave me everything that my last girlfriend didnt and everything i always wanted in a girlfriend.
So what’s the problem right?
Everything was good until about 2 years into the relationship. My aunt offered us her house to rent for very cheep and i asked my girlfriend if she wanted to move in with me. at the time it seemed like a good idea cause she lived kinda far and it would be easier for us to see each other. My lease was up on the place i was living at, and i didnt want to live their anymore cause i didnt get along with my landlord. i didnt really think about what i was about to do to, i just thought it would be cool that we didnt have to drive 45 min to see eachother all the time if we live together. things where good between us so y not right? The only problem is, I was splitting my bills with 4 other guys and now i was about to split them with only one other person. NOT THINKING AHEAH was A BIG MISTAKE THAT I WILL NEVER MAKE AGAIN.
So we moved in and long story short, things where great for a few months until about the last 6 months got tuff. she stared a new job where she wasn’t making much money and i just opened a business that wasn’t making money either and we both where living like poor people. it cause a lot of stress in the house. she never lived on her own before. it was her first time paying bills and everything she was making was going to bills and rent and she hated it. I hated that i was not able to take care of her the way a man who lives with his girl should. I had to ask her for money every month cause i couldn’t afford to pay for the both of us. I tried to pay for her in the beginning to make the move easier on her cause i know how overwhelming it is moving out for the first time. Plus the house was furnished with mostly my aunts furniture so it didn’t always really feel like it was our house.
i feel that we just were not ready for that living situation yet and now our whole relationship is over because of it, not because we weren’t right for each other. she had expectations of me and i had them for her and we where not doing it for each other during this time. Finally one day i couldn’t take the fighting and i said that “this isn’t fun anymore” and i think it would be best if we split. at first she was hesitant but then shortly after agreed. she moved out little by little and i remember hating every min of it. i stayed in the house and one of my friends moved in to help cover the rent who also just broke up with his girlfriend.
Mentally speaking, now that shes back to her normal lifestyle living with her parents again, i dont think she would ever want to go back to being with me. The whole situation to her was a train wreck and i cant imagine why anyone would want to take that chance again. i dont blame her, but i truly feel that its not gunna be like that if we plan better.
About a month ago i had a family member diaginost with a serious cancer and he might not make it. This made me think a lot about life cause this guy is only 25 years old and his life is possibly ending. it made me think about how important it is to keep people who love you in your life cause they are all u got in the end. So I texted her after 4 months of not speaking from the break up and told her i had a panic attack once i reali
it got cut off how do i put up the rest?
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The kinda love that would last forever if i gave it back to her. We where so happy before the move in. i know we can be happy living together once we are both established. i just need to make her see that. i tried everything i could without looking like the desperate crazy ex boyfriend. emails, texting, came to her job and sat by her car until she came out to talk to her face to face. I know these are all bad things to do but in the moment i couldn’t control my urges. she told me she doesnt want me to contact her anymore cause its hard for her. i dont know if that a good thing or a bad thing.
I do know coming on to strong will infact kill my chances of getting her back but i dont want her to forget about me. I feel like i should somehow without being to in her face remind her that im still here wanting her. I really have no idea what im doing, i just know that i screwed up badly and i just want her back. im a guy and guys do dumb shit sometimes.
So I texted her after 4 months of not speaking from the break up and told her i had a panic attack once i realized what was happening (meaning he could die and for the first time realizing i made a mistake about letting her go). She didnt respond until 12 that night saying in a text, “that she didnt get it until then and asked if i was ok” ..i texted her back saying i was upset at the time but was ok now and thanks for getting back to me but forget it… 2 min later she called me. i told her she didnt have to call me and she said “u send me a text like that and u dont think im gunna call” ….i thouhgt that was a sign…i was about to walk into a bar with some friends at the time and i stayed outside while my friends went in and i talked to her for about an hour. it was a really nice convo.
we laughed, talked a bit, told each other what was going on in each others lives, it kinda seemed like she still had feelings for me. she even told me that she still loved me and i told her how much i missed her. we hung up saying goodbye and it felt like it was open ended again.
Cool right?…..NOPE
a week later i saw her in a bar and she ignored me. she was with a bunch of people and it almost seemed like she was avoiding me cause she moved to the other side off the bar when i walked in…didnt say hello…it just didnt line up. it was the first time i saw her since she moved out and it was such a weird feeling being in a room with her and not speaking. or just to say hello…it drove me nuts. thats when i started with all the texting and emails, i told her how much i loved her and it was a mistake and bla bla bla…but i think i waited to long and she has convinced herself that im not right for her. I know she really loved me.
i know i will never let thins happen again and right now in my life i am ready to give someone the best parts of me but i dont want to give it to anyone else but her cause shes the reason i am this way and its what she always wanted.
what do i do? please help..
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i think it got cut off.
So I texted her after 4 months of not speaking from the break up and told her i had a panic attack once i reali
just tell her how you feeel.
thats all i can say.
There are two main things in life that can cause people to break up and that is sex and money, so yours was money. I didn’t see the end of your question it must have run out or something but are you wanting her back because you see your friend dieing so young or because you really want her back.
She might be feeling the same as you that it was all to much to soon and the both of you weren’t ready for a commitment like that. If every thing else was fine then i don’t see why there shouldn’t be a reunion, Maybe this time just take things slowly, tell her how you feel, one day at a time. but also be aware she might have moved on then if that is the case you will have to move on to and take a lesson from the experiance. Good luck.